The Golden Bachelorette‘s live finale event included a fair share of happy and sad tears from Golden Gal Joan Vassos and her Golden Guys: Chock Chapple and Guy Gansert. In an unexpected twist, after Bachelor Nation watched the 61-year-old lead introduce one of her final two men to her family,

Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos said goodbye to Guy Gansert ahead of the final rose ceremony. “I woke up this morning thinking about the date that I had with Chock [Chapple] yesterday,” Joan, 61, said during a confessional in the Wednesday,

Guy Gansert, one of the final contestants on The Golden Bachelorette, has won viewers with his charm, but his past has come under scrutiny.